Thursday, March 29, 2012

SOUL MATE?? Really?

Do you beleive in SOUL MATE?

Have you met her/him already?

According to wiki, A soulmate (or soul mate) is believed by some to be the person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity, similarity, love, sex, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul, which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate.

We all have several, and sometimes many, soulmates in our lifetime. Many of you are currently in, or have been, in a romantic soulmate relationship before. So, what were you doing when that soulmate came into your life? Now we don't mean, were you sitting at a table in Starbucks slugging down a White Chocolate Mocha. It is much deeper than that. What were you doing with your LIFE?

Soulmates tend to find each other during their respective pursuits of their soul missions. Creating a soulmate could be seen as a spiritual reward that we give ourselves, after pursuing many soul contracts rife with discord.
~Linda Brady

Were you sad, depressed and lonely from a recent relationship breakup? Did you look at the floor as you shuffled through Wal-mart to get the week's groceries? Did you spend weekends wrapped up in a blanket, schlubbed on the couch eating bon-bons and watching Lifetime movies wishing you were the heroine?Did you find bathing, washing your hair and other grooming essentials just too much effort because you were not in a relationship? Did you just stop caring about yourself...because you lost yourself somewhere along the way? Do you think this is the right energy to put out their to find your soulmate?

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Love Spells to get your EX back

Whether you were dating or married, losing the special man in your life can be devastating.

Perhaps you thought you would be able to "get by" without him, but now you realize that's not the case.

You feel as if you could just about do anything to get back together; you have even considered getting some free love spells to get him back.

Casting spells is an ancient practice, and love spells were among the strongest cast, at least according to the people who believe in such things.

The truth is that those types of spells are not worth casting, but there are, in effect, many spells that can and do work.

It all comes down to how you define a spell.

For our purposes, a love spell is anything that captivates a person and causes them to have romantic feelings for you.

Here are a few sure-fire free love spells to get him back:

1. Play hard to get. Nothing drives a guy crazier than pretending like you're not interested.
It's as though his animal instincts kick in and he has to start hunting his prey.
In this case, the prey is not some wild animal, it's you!
You do need to be cautious when using this love spell.
If you play too hard to get, then he may give up the hunt and move on to other prey.

2. Be positive.
Guys don't like women who are emotionally needy.
Yes, a lot of guys do like women to depend on them, but only to a point.
Being negative, whining, complaining, and downright miserable all the time will only push him away.
In other words, he won't want to get back together with you.
On the other hand, if you can be positive, upbeat, and cheerful, then he will find you irresistibly attractive.

3. Stick to your word.
If you say you're going to do something, then do it.
It doesn't matter how big or small it is, you must keep your word.
In fact, a good way to get him back is to make small promises, and then follow through on them.
He will appreciate that you're a person of your word, and that will count as a mark in your favor.

4. Be yourself.
While you may feel as though you would be willing to say or do anything to get him back, you need to make sure that you stay who you are.
If you pretend to be something you're not and he decides to take you back, then you will either have to keep living a lie, or you will eventually have to come clean. Neither of those things are a good option.
Besides, you're an awesome person, and he should want you for who you are.

Those are just a few free love spells to get him back, and while they don't rely on sorcery, they will work like magic.

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

How to Fix your Marriage?

To start with, you need to know whether the marriage is worth putting all the extra effort into. As long as your partner is showing signs that they want to work on the relationship as well as you, then you have a good chance of being successful. But if your partner has clearly stated that this is the end, then you will need to respect that and give them some space.

You may know of other couples who have remained together just because it may be the easiest option, or because they don't want to upset the children involved. But these reasons are not always enough. Having your partners commitment to equally working on mending the relationship is a fantastic start to working things out.
Figuring out what the exact problems are in your marriage, is your next step. This step is important to get right as the symptoms of some problems can easily be mistaken for the problems themselves. An example which many of us confuse for the cause of many break ups is an affair.

An affair is just a symptom of another problem in your relationship. A partner straying can be caused by actual lack of intimacy. In this example, the cause of a break up was not the affair itself, but the little intimacy.
The most important thing you can take from this step is to deal with the underlying problem to stop any nasty symptoms from occuring. Focusing on the core problems will allow you to save your marriage.

Once you have pinpointed the core issue, you need to begin to talk about it. Let your spouse know exactly how you are feeling and then listen to how they are feeling. When you have your feelings on the table, it is a lot easier to start putting a plan together to fix your problems.

Then take steps towards putting your plan in action. One idea is to put aside one night a week for you to spend time together, preferably alone. And lastly, mending your relationship will not happen overnight. Keep in mind that there will probably be more tears, as well as laughter, to move forward. You will need to remain patient along the way and be ready to apologise quickly.

How to Please the Man in Your Life

I've been reading and searching different write ups and articles on how to make my husband happy. The man I exchanged vows with is so much more than just a provider and a pair of useful hands around the house. He is someone who is always there to cheer me up whenever I'm feeling low, and celebrate with when the good times are around. I love him so much, I really want to know what are the things I need to understand and learned because I know that this maybe the time to do something fun and unexpected to gladden my husband's heart.

Below are some of the list that really caught my attention:
  • Start with a love letter. Remember how eagerly you waited in the early days of your courtship to receive a letter or just a note from each other? Do it again, but this time count all the reasons, which you think make him the best husband. Your man will not only be happy to be reminded of your love but glad to know that he makes you happy as well.
  • Listen actively. When your husband expresses an opinion or a thought, pay attention. This shows you respect him and his views and nothing pleases a man more
  • Say thank you with a smile. When your husband does an odd job around the house, thank him like you really mean it. He will know that his help is not taken for granted and he will be happy to do more.
  • Prepare his favorite meal. After he returns home from work on an ordinary day, surprise your husband with his favorite dinner.  He will not only be glad to have the food he likes best, but will appreciate the time and effort you put in preparing it.
  • Hold his gaze. When you are speaking to your husband or listening to him, make sure that you keep eye contact. This will assure him of your attention and your respect, which is empowering to any man.
  • Ask his family over. Your husband’s parents mean a lot to him. So ask them over for a Sunday lunch he will be touched by your loving gesture.
  • Do something he hates. Choose a chore, like buying grocery or taking out the laundry, your husband really dislikes doing and then go on to do it cheerfully.
  • Appreciate his interests. If your husband is into carpentry, praise the bookstand he has made, even if it wobbles just a wee bit. Or if he loves collecting coins, buy him a book on numismatics. Your interest in his hobbies will give your husband a feeling of pride and make him happy.
  • Tell your husband to take a night out with his pals. Not only will he have a good time, but he will also be grateful for your thoughtfulness.
  • Find a quiet moment with your husband to whisper “ I love you” in his ears. If you have already said it, say it again. You can never say these three words too often and you can be sure, that every time it will make your husband glad, he married you.
  • Put on your sexiest lingerie and get ready for an intimate evening with your husband. He will be happy to know you still desire him as a lover.
  • Flirt with your husband in front of his friends. Hold his gaze, touch his legs under the table and steal quick kisses. Your hubby will love to relive the days of romance.
It doesn't take much to make your man happy. Unconditional Love and sincere appreciation are what most men expect in a partner.

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About the Author

Hi everyone! My name is Lyn, graduate of Bachelor of Science major in Biology. 
I am previously working as Laboratory Analyst in one of the biggest manufacturing company in the Philippines. 
I love science & health so much. 
I am here to discuss you different things that has something to do with RELATIONSHIP. I'm a full time housewives to my ever dearest husband MD and a part time scent maker.
Hope you'll support me with my journey. 
Your ideas, suggestions & concern are well appreciated on this blog.

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